Martin Seligman is one of my favourite personal development authors. Not only are his books easy to read, but as the founder of the Positive Psychology movement he's got the academic credentials and professional experience to know what the research says, and what he's talking about.
His book What You Can Change and What You Can't is billed as "The Complete Guide to Successful Self-Improvement". I was drawn to this book while contemplating the question: “Just how much can a person change?” I was particularly interested in whether it's possible to make major changes in how we relate to other people, like if an introvert can become an extrovert. I've done the Myers Briggs Personality Type Indicator a couple of times in the past and I was never certain whether I was really an introvert, or just a traumatised extrovert. I love hanging around people when it goes well, but it hasn't always gone as well as I would have liked and some of my early interactions with people were quite traumatic. I believe this is what led me to develop tremendous social anxiety.
The Complete Guide To Successful Self-Improvement?
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What You Can Change and What You Can’t by Martin E.P. Seligman is a post from The Confident Man Project
